Life Abroad in Portugal with Bob Tapper 🇵🇹

S7:Ep4 - Making Friends in Portugal: Why It’s Hard (And What Actually Works)

Bob Tapper Season 7 Episode 4

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Making friends in Portugal isn’t always easy — and for many people moving abroad, it can feel surprisingly lonely.

In this episode of Life Abroad in Portugal, I share my experience building a real group of friends after relocating, and what actually worked for me. From stepping outside my comfort zone to starting my own Meetup groups, this is a practical, honest look at how friendships really form in a new country.

I talk about why this can be challenging, especially as an adult, and why waiting for friendships to happen rarely works. Instead, creating opportunities — whether by joining groups or starting your own — can completely change the experience.

What helped me most:
 • Starting a filmmaking Meetup around something I genuinely love
 • Creating a simple monthly expat Meetup in my neighborhood
 • Joining an existing business group
 • Showing up consistently over time

If you’re living in Portugal or planning your move and wondering how to build a social life here, this episode offers real, actionable insight.

You’re not alone — and with a little intention, it gets better.

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